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The Winemaker Review

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April 8, 2013 By Jennifer Lambert Leave a Comment

I reviewed The Winemaker by Noah Gordon. It’s amazing.

It is beautifully written and I immediately felt sympathy for the main character, Joseph Alvarez. I fell into the story and read through the night, unable to relinquish him to sleep, worried about him and what would happen next. He is the second son in a time when the whole family legacy goes to the firstborn son. He is a leaf on the wind, fated to the circumstances of his position and his lack of education and finances. Many of the villagers were resigned to their fate, but Josep was not.

“He faced the fact that he hungered to be able to do work that resulted in making something that was good.”

I struggled with Josep. I loved who he loved. I hated who he hated. I was angry when he was wronged. I rejoiced when he was finally happy. It is a lovely fairy tale, yet it is so true to life. Struggles with adversity make us stronger and we learn from our mistakes or we fail. The weaker characters in the book failed just like in real life. We must be responsible for our actions and face consequences. It is natural selection.

Josep uses his meager resources and learns quickly and relies on friends and their advice, takes risks and is open to opportunities. He rises above his humble beginnings to reach success and happiness. His emotions are raw and real without being overwhelming or disgusting. His spiritual and emotional progression to maturity is genuine and believable.

“He went on, his voice breaking, no more able to control his emotions or his words than a bull in the midst of a clumsy charge straight at the point of a sword…[then later] He was experiencing something totally unfamiliar too him, and with a shock, he recognized it as joy.”

Simply, I admire this man. I yearn for his success and happiness.

And the wine, oh, the wine! I want to taste it. And I feel like I could go plant a vineyard and grow grapes and produce a magnificent wine just from reading the book. It just sounds so adventurous, if not easy. The travel for his research must have been so fun! I must go to Spain. I must go buy some Spanish wine and eat some cheese and chorizo with tortillas.

It was like Jude the Obscure, but set in mid-nineteenth century Spain…and not quite so bleak. Happy ending!

Resentment towards his brother eventually was absolved: “Something within Josep – something small, cold, and heavy, an icy sin he had carried unknowing in his very core – melted and vanished.”

It was like The Cask of Amontillado, but with redemption. Josep did what he had to do. He was bitter. But he eventually forgave and was forgiven.

Padre Pio asked Josep: “So, where is your sin, my son?…Be tormented no more.”

Synopsis:

From the author of The Physician and Shaman now comes this story of a young man—the grapes he grows, the wine he fashions, the women he loves, and his struggle against an evil that seeks to destroy him. Already an international bestseller.

Josep Alvarez is a young man in the tiny grape-growing village of Santa Eulália, in northern Spain, where his father grows black grapes that are turned into cheap vinegar. Joseph loves the agricultural life, but he is the second son, and his father’s vineyard will be inherited by his brother Donat, the firstborn. Josep needs to keep his hands in the soil. He yearns for a job growing grapes and for an opportunity to marry Teresa Gallego.

In Madrid, an assassination plot, conceived against the political leader of Spain by men of wealth and power, creates a storm of intrigue that sucks into its vortex a group of innocent young farm workers in Santa Eulália. How Josep’s life is changed drastically by these events, and how, ironically, they gradually turn him into an inspired vintner with an evolving vision of life, is the fascinating story of The Winemaker.

About the author, Noah Gordon:

“I could think of absolutely nothing finer in the world than to become a writer,” says Noah Gordon, whose internationally bestselling novels include The Physician and Shaman.

The Physician, soon to be a motion picture, has been called a modern classic. In 1999, booksellers at the Madrid Book Fair voted it “one of the 10 best-loved books of all time.” Shaman was awarded the James Fenimore Cooper Prize for historical fiction.

Gordon describes his passions for both medical and historical fiction, as well as his near brush with a career as a doctor—before turning those interests into material for his novels.

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Lead Your Family Like Jesus

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March 24, 2013 By Jennifer Lambert 1 Comment

I am so pleased to be a part of the Launch Team for Lead Your Family Like Jesus: Powerful Parenting Principles from the Creator of Families by Ken Blanchard, Phil Hodges, and Tricia Goyer.

This is a family leadership book.

This is a child-training book. A book on parenting.

And I love how those two things are meshed together and help me to analyze and express how I want my family to look in the future.

It’s all about goals, vision, values, priorities.

You need to see that future picture of success for your family to know what you must do now to get there.

An important question for family leader to ask is, “What do we want to influence?”

The key is specifying what carrying out your priorities looks like.

~Lead Your Family Like Jesus p. 67

By examining your future picture, you can make a plan to implement for success. Jesus must be the foundation for your goals.

A wise man noted that it was only in the past century that the word priority went plural. Jesus had one priority: glorify God.

Everything Jesus did was about…Exalting God Only. It was an act of worship…He pointed those around Him to God.

~Lead Your Family Like Jesus p. 63, 33, 34

My husband, Aaron, and I have been using this book to teach our Sunday school class for a while now and we’re enjoying it and learning so much about leadership from Jesus! We’ve all had some lively discussions. We’re convicted to “put our egos on the altar” and align our attitudes. I adore having some older couples agree with the book’s teachings and describe how they raised their children.

A parent’s attitude, I realized, is the foundation for how every day is lived out. And those days are the building blocks of childhood memories.

~Lead Your Family Like Jesus p. 93

What memories will your children have? Do you need to make some changes in your attitude to reflect your family goals?

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We’ve all heard “Do what I say, not as I do.” But we are the examples to our children and actions speak so much louder than words. Does what you do and say match what you believe?

Life, family, and leadership are all about choices. What do you stand for? How have you chosen family activities to match?

~Lead Your Family Like Jesus p. 65

The book has four parts – The Four Leadership Domains – that all interact like a flowchart {Indeed, I made one for my Sunday school class}:

  1. The Heart: The character and the values
  2. The Head: Your viewpoint and beliefs
  3. The Hands: What you actually do
  4. The Habits: How you continually refocus your desire
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Throughout the chapters, there are Pause & Reflect sections that invite discussion and real deep down thinking of your motives as a parent.

For example, in the first chapter, we’re asked:

What is Temporary Stuff? What is Important Forever? It encourages us to keep everything in eternal perspective.

Great quotes from other Christian books help drive points home. The authors tell stories of how they dealt with difficult circumstances, how they trained their children, how they modeled Jesus’ upside-down Kingdom values.

At the end of each section are reviews over the Leadership Domain – Points to Ponder. Great summaries!

I believe this book especially appeals to men, to dads. It’s a leadership book. I know my husband’s only reading material is online…or leadership books. This book really targets dads in ways they can understand, especially if they’re not regular readers – with bullets, flow charts, pyramids, headings…all this makes it easier to read and comprehend the material.

It’s a call to action for men to step up and lead. But we wives need to learn to let them and support them, even if we may have a different (not necessarily better!) way. We need to clamp our mouths and listen respectfully to our husbands’ points of view. See Tricia’s video clip below!

Your Big World to Their Small World

Do you help your husband feel comfortable leading your family? Tricia has lots of edifying videos! Subscribe to her YouTube channel so you don’t miss a one.

What’s your family’s vision? It must say who you are (your purpose), where you’re going (your picture of the future), and what will guide your journey (your values). {paraphrased from p.48}

Write it down in your dining room or family room. Get it pretty-fied and frame it!

Rank-ordered values alone won’t accomplish your family’s purpose or turn your picture of the future into reality. You need to translate those values into behaviors.

~Lead Your Family Jesus p.61

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FaithLeaps Book Review

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March 12, 2013 By Jennifer Lambert 1 Comment

Do you have a vision?

What are you passionate about? What are you good at? How could you make a profit at it?

Sometimes our dreams require a blind jeté into the unknown. A leap of faith. And those are so scary!

Alyssa Avant encourages moms in her new book FaithLeaps: The Christian Mom’s Guide to Passion, Purpose, and Profits.

Cuz I don’t know about you…but I sometimes feel guilty about pursuing profits for my dreams, my writing, my blog, even my new business of editing, book promotion, and VA work. I know I undersell myself. I doubt. I offer too much of myself for too little. I think that’s the enemy telling us that we’re not worth it or we’re selfish to want honest pay for honest work. We internalize that our place is in the home, taking care of babies and dinner and laundry. Perhaps even homeschooling our children. We shouldn’t have time for our own work. But those are lies!

Alyssa addresses these fears in her book so eloquently and edifies moms, encouraging us to move forward and seek God’s will. Many of us can make time for a business on the side of parenting and housework.

It doesn’t have to be a traditional job. For most of us, a full time daytime job is not a viable option, especially if we homeschool or have small children. I know many moms who have successful home businesses that they juggle while they care for their families, homeschool their children, support their husband’s career and/or ministry.

It’s all about priorities.

Mothers who work at home cannot compartmentalize their lives. Our lives are one big puzzle and all of the puzzle pieces must fit together. If not, the picture of life is distorted and has little to no value. We must give appropriate attention to God, our spouse, children, ourselves, our homes and our businesses. Most people struggle as one area demands more attention than the others.

Where do you struggle with priorities? Do you give “appropriate attention” to all areas of your life or is it off-kilter?

Alyssa offers some great free quizzes to determine interests and spiritual gifts. She discusses the differences between these and talents.

Spiritual gifts are given to us by God for work in His Kingdom. These gifts we receive at the time of our salvation. Talents, though given to us by God, will not necessarily be used for God…A skill is something that we can practice or learn.

What are your interests, gifts, skills, talents? My spiritual gifts are teaching, prophecy, and exhortation.

I am very excited to be part of Alyssa’s launch team and I really feel this book could help so many moms who struggle with doubt and the lies of the enemy. Fulfill your dreams, girl! Find your purpose within God’s will and seek after it. You will be blessed and in turn, bless others.

Disclaimer: I received a free copy of this eBook in exchange for my honest review. I was not required to write a positive review nor was I compensated in any other way. All opinions I have expressed are my own or those of my family. I am disclosing this in accordance with the FTC Regulations.

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So Shines the Night Book Review

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March 11, 2013 By Jennifer Lambert Leave a Comment

The book of Acts is where our faith begins. The apostle Paul brings the Truth to the Gentiles. Without Paul’s great mission work, would we even know of Jesus?

Join me as we delve into Paul’s world at Ephesus in So Shines the Night, the newest Biblical fiction novel from Tracy Higley.

I am proud to be a member of Tracy’s Caravan, a group of readers, bloggers, lovers of words and Biblical history…

History truly comes alive within these pages.

Freedom has been a theme in my spiritual journey lately. Why shouldn’t God speak to me through a novel too?

This novel is frightening. It shows a very scary world of pure evil – demon possession, sorcerers, spells and hallucinogens to “expand” the mind and open up souls to the enemy. It shows the very real battle of spiritual forces in Ephesus during the time of Paul.

The story is well-wrought and balances the spiritual journeys of the main characters, Daria and Lucas, with their inevitable, but tasteful, love interest. The many mysteries and plot twists add excitement and fun to a very dark topic. The protagonists are believable and lovable and I am immediately sympathetic for them, cheering them on in my heart. The villains are portrayed well and there is little sympathy for them. I can cast actors to play all of them in my head! The flashback frame sets the scene for a powerful lesson in seeking security only in Christ and watching for His return, but never being idle.

I think many of us turn a blind eye to a very real evil that fights for power over all of us. Many of us struggle with strongholds over our spirits and live our lives in bondage without ever truly breaking free and experiencing the completeness of Christ’s love.

We must wake up and fight as God’s army – against the powers of darkness.

I pray that the message of this novel will help many to seek freedom in Christ.

Interview with the author.
I love this about Tracy: she interacts with her fans and we call her friend. She makes time for us. These are my silly questions to her and she answered them! Tracy asked her Caravan to send her our questions and she put a file together with all her answers for us. I included 2 other really good ones from the list. I hope these bless you, readers and writers!

1. How do you start writing a new novel? Do you make an outline, use a gazillion different colored Post-It notes on a big wall grid, just sit at the computer and knock it out, or what?

I am definitely an outliner and a plotter, but most of what I put together is on the computer. For the past few books I’ve been using a program called Scrivener, which I really like. I have notes in my personal “template” file that pertain to all stories – to the structure behind them – and I look them over as I plot through the scenes. For every scene I create a brainstorming worksheet before I write it – something that gives me the high-level look at what’s going to happen in the scene, and contains some of the sensory details I’ve imagined. I print this out and have it next to me as a I write the scene.

2. What advice to you have for someone who wants to write “The Great American novel’ and struggles to even get started? I know that’s broad…

Like any huge, overwhelming project, the best advice is just to start. See what kind of writer you are by getting started. Does an outline and a plot make you feel stunted? Do you fear the blank page and need to think it through first? There are tons of writing helps out there no matter what kind of writer you are. Find some, read and digest them, and then come back and keep writing.

3. What advice do you have for writers launching their first book?

Find your people. It’s tough, but there are folks out there who are very much like you and will love to read what you write. So the first step is truly understanding yourself and your special brand of writing. The second step is to make sure your books, your website, etc all match up to that special brand. And then start spreading the word to find those like-minded people who will be your best fans.

4. Who is your greatest inspiration – as a writer, mom, Christian?…any and all of those criteria.

As a writer, I’m inspired by C.S. Lewis (of course), but also by Stephen Lawhead and Frederick Buechner, both of whom have the ability to pick the reader up and carry them somewhere else. As a mom, it is the awesome friends I have, whose daily interactions with their children I am privileged to witness, that inspire me most. And as a Christian? The lives of those who live big and adventurous for the kingdom – willing to love and risk because they are secure in Christ.

5. What’s the best piece of writing advice you’ve ever received?

Keep writing. If you haven’t finished anything, keep writing. If you’ve finished something and are trying to submit and sell it somewhere, don’t wait for an answer, keep writing. If you’ve gotten some interest and it’s moving through the process, keep writing. The publishing industry can move very slowly, and the best way to be ready for your “big break” is to keep improving through practice, practice, practice.

Tracy L. Higley started her first novel at the age of eight and has been hooked on writing ever since. She has authored nine novels, including Garden of Madness and Isle of Shadows. Tracy is currently pursuing a graduate degree in Ancient History and has traveled through Greece, Turkey, Egypt, Israel, Jordan and Italy, researching her novels and falling into adventures. See her travel journals and more at TracyHigley.com.

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You’re Made for a God-Sized Dream Book Review

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March 4, 2013 By Jennifer Lambert Leave a Comment

Are you a dreamer?

I’m not the only one!

{Do you hear that John Lennon song playing in the background too?}

You’re Made for a God-Sized Dream Book Review

Bestselling author, blogger, {in}courage writer, Holley Gerth has done it again with her amazing book, You’re Made for a God-Sized Dream. I just love her friendly writing style. It’s like we’re just hanging out together, chatting over a warm cuppa.

This lovely book is full of Scripture, prayer, and downloadable printables for you to work through your dream obstructions.

This book is a pep rally for your Dream.

My life has been travelling on this theme of Dreams this year. I think God is working and moving in many lives simultaneously about Dreams and how we are all so interrelated and connected to one another in the Body of Christ.

So, are you wondering about the title of this post? Holley cited a study about a societal shift from Alpha Women (the popular leaders) to Gamma Women (the wind beneath the wings-types). She thinks God-sized dreamers are Gamma Women. I do too. And I love the way she stated it! I had such a similar thought a few weeks ago. God confirmed my thought with that paragraph in the book! Amazing…

But the waiting for these dreams to come to fruition! ugh, to trust God with the timing and everything that could stand in the way!

Holley addresses the waiting and any other obstacle we or the enemy can throw in the path to our Dreams. There are no excuses!

This. Brilliant!

Perhaps our idea of waiting is too limited. We think we have to be still and do nothing at all. But what if waiting is more about the attitude of our hearts? We move forward with a sense of expectation and are open at any moment to God redirecting us.

Do you experience fear? Don’t we all…Fear holds me back from my Dreams and I could do so much more if it weren’t for fear strangling me.

I love Holley’s fear analogy. Fear is like a herd of little yippy Chihuahua dogs!

[F]ear always think it’s the master. Sometimes it convinces you of the same. But it’s not true.

Holley admonishes us to put that fear on a leash and take back your Dream! She goes down the list of everything that holds us back to fulfilling our Dreams.

I especially like the chapter on “Disclaimers.” When you get run-down and you don’t like your dream anymore. It doesn’t mean it’s time to quit!

And, Holley reminds us to take care of ourselves. Aren’t we always our last priority – after kids, husbands, jobs, homeschooling, housework…then we don’t even have time or energy left over to care for our own needs! But we have needs, and dreams too! And they’re worth it. Risk it. Tread through the fear. Don’t regret doing nothing.

And the last chapter contains stories of God-Sized Dreams! Proof that others have traveled this journey and come out on the other side! Success stories of charities, businesses, ministries, creativity, and others. They could be your story.

What’s your God-Sized Dream?

Have you read You’re Already Amazing? Cuz you are!

{Visit DaySpring for all sorts of gorgeous God-Sized Dreams companions and products!}

Disclaimer: I received a free galley copy of this book through the Revell Blog Tour in exchange for my honest review. I was not required to write a positive review nor was I compensated in any other way. All opinions I have expressed are my own or those of my family. I am disclosing this in accordance with the FTC Regulations.

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Balancing Blogging and Mothering

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February 12, 2013 By Jennifer Lambert 1 Comment

You’re probably a lot like I am, struggling to balance that blogging and mothering scale.

Some days, blogging just has to go right out the window when crises hit home with various needs of homeschooling, cooking, cleaning, helping my husband, or other activities that fall within my wide sphere of duty.

Christin Slade writes to us in her new book Blog at Home Mom about finding that delicate balance within blogging and mothering. She too is a homeschool mom and a very successful blogger at Blog at Home Mom.

Christin encourages us as mothers and bloggers and lays out a plan to prioritize blogging and mothering so our lives are successful and point to Christ as the head of our homes and lives.

This book was like the permission I needed to let it go and prioritize my mothering and other duties. Blogging on the side. God in control. If I’m successful, He gets the glory, because my family should come first.

I’m not one of those bloggers who has family nearby. I don’t rely on people to babysit my kids so I can work. We are all in the thick of it, all day and every day. I fit in my work in between laundry, meal-planning, cooking, cleaning, homeschooling, and rushing kids to soccer, gymnastics, music lessons, play rehearsals, Civil Air Patrol. And I struggle to make time for my husband. I struggle to relax and fit in fun. I don’t feel I have time to watch a show or read a frivolous book. If I have any down-time, I need to go, go, go! Time to work!

This isn’t a healthy attitude. I need balance.

We all need a little encouragement and a gentle reminder to set goals to ensure our testimony as successful Christian mothers and bloggers.

I loved reading this and I’m sure you will too!

Resources:

  • Motherwhelmed by Beth Berry
  • Jesus, the Gentle Parent by LR Knost
  • Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay Gibson
  • Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child by John Gottman
  • The Mother Dance: How Children Change Your Life by Harriet Lerner

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  • Standing Alone
  • Balancing Blogging and Mothering
  • Navigating Motherhood During Deployment
  • A Mother’s Résumé
  • Childcare Crisis
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Desperate Book Review

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January 7, 2013 By Jennifer Lambert 1 Comment

I couldn’t put this book down. I struggled to even see the words through my tears.

Sarah Mae understands. She knows. I went through my struggles alone when I first had my girls, beaten down by the enemy and awash in grief that I could barely cope with my life.

Oh, if I’d had this book then. Or a friend.

Now that I’m through that storm and looking back from this sunshiny other side, I can see that dark place and wonder at our amazing God who saw me through it. I was not alone. But I didn’t have any help. I had no mentors. I had no friends who offered assistance in sincerity. My husband was at a loss, not understanding what was happening, why I felt the way I did. I was just overwhelmed.

Sarah Mae fills that gap that so many moms need. Help.

I am so excited to have the opportunity to share Desperate with you. We are not alone.

Included in the Book:

  • QR codes and links at the end of each chapter that lead to videos with Sarah Mae and Sally talking about the chapter
  • Practical steps to take during the desperate times
  • Bible study and journal exercises in each chapter that will lead you to identify ways in which you can grow as a mom
  • Mentoring advice for real-life situations
  • Q & A section with Sally where she answers readers questions
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Isle of Shadows Book Review

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January 4, 2013 By Jennifer Lambert Leave a Comment

I just love Tracy Higley. I love her books too.

I was excited to read and review her re-release of Isle of Shadows (formerly Shadow of Colossus). Get the first three chapters and more!

The main character, Tessa, is very likeable and believable. I immediately saw her as a heroine and wanted her to succeed in everything: life, love, happiness.

This is the ultimate redemption story, similar to that of many women of the Bible. A fallen woman doesn’t know she needs God and she finds living water. All her problems don’t go away, but having God and other believers help her makes it all more bearable.

I especially love this book because it takes place during Old Testament times. The history is impeccable and accurate. I would love to travel with Tracy as her assistant on one of her research tours!

As always, Tracy Higley weaves real Bible characters into her story. In Isle of Shadows, our Bible character is Simeon, who trusts God to see our Savior before death. I too wonder if they might have been really like that…

Tracy Higley’s books are a beautiful tapestry of Biblical history. The right amount of love story satisfies all audiences. The books don’t glorify evil, but show how God and believers can overcome all evil. I encourage my eldest daughter (12) to read Higley’s books when they coincide with our history studies!

Book Description

Revised and updated from the original, Christy-award finalist Shadow of Colossus.

Enslaved in a World of Money and Power, Tessa Dares to be Free.

Raised as courtesan to wealthy and powerful men, Tessa of Delos serves at the whim of her current patron, the politician Glaucus. After ten years with him, Tessa has abandoned all desire for freedom or love, choosing instead to lock her heart away.

But when Glaucus meets a violent death in his own home, Tessa grasps at a fragile hope. Only she knows of his death. If she can keep it a secret long enough, she can escape.

Tessa throws herself on the mercy of the Greek god Helios, but finds instead unlikely allies in Nikos, a Greek slave, and Simeon, Glaucus’s Jewish head servant. As Simeon introduces her to a God unlike any she has ever known and Nikos begins to stir feelings she had thought long dead, Tessa fights to keep her heart protected.

As an assassination plot comes to light, Tessa must battle for her own freedom—and for those to whom she has begun to open her heart—as forces collide that shatter the island’s peace.

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You Can’t Make Me Book Review

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December 10, 2012 By Jennifer Lambert Leave a Comment

This parenting book has been a game changer for my husband and me in communicating with our four children.

I cannot even begin to tell you about all the improvements in our family from communicating the way we learned in You Can’t Make Me: But I Can Be Persuaded by Cynthia Ulrich Tobias.

As a “strong-willed child” myself, everything written in this book made total sense to me. I have recognized the strong will in 3 of my 4 children. I usually can communicate with all of my children in a way that they do what I want. I get frustrated and it all falls apart at times, of course. Reading this book and applying its principles, I can now be so much more intentional about communicating to my SWC’s in better ways.

The author suggests asking questions since commands are confrontational. Bingo! Asking my two strong willed daughters, “Have you finished that writing assignment?” or “Have you taken out the trash?” or “Have you brushed your teeth?” is so much better than, “Get to your room and finish your work!” or “Go take out the trash right now!” or “Go brush your teeth!” Asking them the questions reminds them to complete the task in a non-threatening way and gives them responsibility for their chores or work rather than my nagging them. My five year old daughter gets irritated with herself when I ask her these questions (usually knowing the answer already or I wouldn’t bother asking). She does the face palm and runs to go do whatever it is that she forgot. It’s just easy!

We’re co-regulating.

I’m hoping this works soon with our two and a half year old son. Asking him any reminder questions just ends up with his yelling, “No!” and refusing to budge.  It’s kinda funny now, but won’t be in a year or two. or ten.

Cynthia Ulrich Tobias has a website about learning styles. I find that helpful as a home educator and parent. Of course, my kids all learn differently to keep me on my toes!

I highly recommend this book to parents or teachers who work with strong willed children. Don’t kill their spirits. Nurture them. Love them and learn to communicate with them. They are tomorrow’s leaders.

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Do Unto Otters

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November 22, 2012 By Jennifer Lambert 2 Comments

I saw this delightful book at the library: Do Unto Otters by Laurie Heller.

We’re studying land animals in science. We’re always needing to brush up on manners. We’re working on Virtues. I figured this book might fit the bill in multiple avenues.

And it’s really cute!

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Do Unto Otters

The book’s main character is a worried rabbit whose new neighbors are otters and he’s worried that the otters won’t be good neighbors…because, well, they’re otters. Wise old owl tells the rabbit: Refer to the Golden Rule. Do unto otters as you would have them do unto you.

So the rabbit goes through a list of what would make otters good neighbors, by following the Golden Rule. The rabbit’s list a is a good one for everyone to follow to be a good neighbor.

So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets. Matthew 7:12 NIV

I read it to the little kids and they loved it. Then Tori and Katie wanted to peruse it at their leisure while I did tot school with Alex.

“Do not do to others that which would anger you if others did it to you.”―Socrates (the Greek philosopher), circa 470-399 B.C.
Mr. Rabbit’s new neighbors are Otters.
OTTERS!
But he doesn’t know anything about otters. Will they get along? Will they be friends?
Just treat otters the same way you’d like them to treat you, advises Mr. Owl.
In her smart, playful style Laurie Keller highlights how to be a good friend and neighbor―simply follow the Golden Rule!

Treat others the same way you want them to treat you. Luke 6:31 NASB

 How do you teach manners?

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