Quarantine Schooling

I taught school for about ten years, and always homeschooled my four kids, so I have a bit of a different philosophy towards education than many.

Around March 2020, may families found themselves in awkward situations. Many parents worked from home while children completed their school year online. Teachers scrambled to prepare online lessons for hundreds of students. It was stressful.

Many families and the media call this homeschooling.

Narrator: “This was not, in fact, homeschooling.”

Now the word “homeschooling” has evolved over the years and used to have different connotations than it now does. It’s not such a weighted or negative word as it used to be.

The word often conjured images of denim jumper dress-wearing evangelical fundamentalist Christian families. And that certainly is still a subculture within homeschooling communities.

While it is still difficult to find secular and liberal homeschoolers in many areas, it is becoming more widely acceptable for many families to home educate their children in different ways.

Homeschool choices are almost limitless. Many states and school districts provide online or video lessons. There are secular and Christian curriculum options. Parents can create an eclectic mix of academics and hobbies for kids to explore.

Many families are concerned about safety, continuity, and consistency for this next school year.

Some schools are closed, some offer part time or staggered attendance, some are going completely online. I am not here to judge parents whose choices are impossible during these circumstances. I realize many parents must work outside the home and need childcare. Our society expects schools to provide education and care during working hours.

Teachers are facing impossible situations. Required to teach in person or prepare and teach engaging lessons online, risking their health or their careers. I can’t imagine making these hard choice if I were still a classroom teacher.

I understand that it’s overwhelming to suddenly homeschool kids who expect to attend school. It’s a completely different lifestyle for many families and the unknown is scary.

It took me a few years to adjust as a reluctant homeschooler.

For first time homeschoolers, pandemic/quarantine/crisis homeschoolers, reluctant homeschoolers, even veteran homeschoolers:

Some things to think about school at home:

What is your focus?

Search your heart for what you want this school year to look like for your family. Use this time to learn about your children – their hopes, dreams, preferences. Don’t just think this is about academics. This is about relationship. This is about making memories. What do you want your family to look back on during this time and remember fondly?

Ease into it.

It’s often best to start with the bare bones. Fun, fun, fun. Outside time. Hiking. Nature exploration. Learn about your backyard nature. Fall in love with learning. Maybe just begin with reading, writing, arithmetic. Have story time and talk about the book afterwards or make art. Do kitchen math with delicious recipes. You don’t have to recreate a classroom school environment in your kitchen, dining room, living room, or basement. You don’t have to spend hundreds of dollars on curriculum, books, computer programs.

Keep records.

Records, portfolio, book lists, field trips are handy to have if you plan to send kids back into public or private school attendance at any point. It’s also nice to look back over what was accomplished on the days when you feel like nothing ever got done. I often enlist the kids to help make their notebooks or portfolios. It’s a great family project! Many homeschoolers must submit curriculum lists at the beginning of each school year with their intent letter and provide a portfolio or test score at the end of the year. Keeping records as you go makes this easier than scrambling last minute. It’s good to have a scrapbook or journals for kids to look back on too.

Take it slow.

You will have bad days. Keep your cool as the adult when things fall apart. Don’t think of it as a failure. Think of the unpleasant moments as opportunities to learn how to do better. No one is falling behind. You’re not competing with anyone. You don’t need a strict color-coded schedule for every minute of every day. You don’t have to know how to do everything, teach every subject, or complete every lesson. There is a plethora of resources out there to help. Screentime is ok. Sleeping in is ok. Meal times are arbitrary. Later bedtimes are ok. I realize this is a stressful time for everyone, even veteran homeschoolers who usually participate in lots of activities with others.

Keep in touch.

It’s important to allow kids to keep in touch with friends until it’s safer for in person meetups and play dates and group activities. We live in a brave new world with so much technology allowing us to communicate any time, anywhere, with almost anyone. My kids have iPads and/or smartphones with Discord, messenger apps, social media. We find it difficult to find other kids whose parents trust them to use these services. It makes it more difficult for my kids to keep in touch with their friends.

Start a new tradition.

Breakfast announcements. Morning message before beginning seatwork. Weekly tea time (it doesn’t even have to include tea!) with fun snacks and music or poetry. Friday free days (or afternoons) for playing outside. Friday pizza nights with movies. Saturday dance parties. Sunday hiking.

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What does this school year look like for your family?

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~ linda says
August 11, 2020 at 11:36 am
This is good! So many parents are caught and do not know quite what or how to do this. I am a retired public school teacher but would homeschool my kids (if I had any!) in a heartbeat! I know a number of parents here where I live who have been homeschooling for years but are engaging with those who have decided to do school that way now. They need all the help they can get as it can be overwhelming. Yet…it is so doable and so worth it, in my humble opinion. I would not want to be in and out with schools opening and closing.
Karen Del Tatto says
August 13, 2020 at 2:30 pm
Although I am in my empty nest years, my homeschooling years are still held very dear to me. Your list of insightful tips to employ for those schooling as a result of quarantine, I’m sure, will be a great help.
Joanne says
August 13, 2020 at 3:44 pm
I had such a hard time not giving that knee jerk reaction of “you’re not homeschooling!” when many of my friends turned to me in frustration asking how I homeschooled my 3 boys but I knew it wouldn’t help. I felt bad that they were caught between a 6 or 7 assignments per child while also trying to work from home or continue working; a situation I couldn’t relate to as I had the benefit of picking curriculum and routine that worked for us. A few of my teacher friends are struggling now as schools expect them to begin teaching from the classroom 4 days a week but their kids are only allowed in the building 2 leaving them scrambling for childcare and trying to juggle even more. It is certainly not anyone’s ideal situation. We’re anticipating a rather large surge of true homeschooling families joining our ranks this year but I guess only time will tell how all this pans out. Thanks for sharing with us at Encouraging Hearts and Home. Pinned.
Michele Morin says
August 14, 2020 at 9:04 am
This is the first summer in 21 years that I am not preparing for homeschooling. My heart goes out to parents who have been forced into schooling their own kids. It’s a huge job, and one I took on willingly, but it was my choice, and I prepared well.