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December 2, 2020 By Jennifer Lambert 15 Comments

For many people, life as they knew it has been put on hold due to the restrictions we all must adhere to with COVID-19. The days of waiting patiently for life to return to “normal” have passed. In fact, there has been enough time that has passed since the virus hit in early 2020, that we can confidently say, we have developed a new normal. 

At first, this new normal was odd. Anything new is going to be strange to our human brain. We like consistency, predictability, and familiarity. It is what helps us to feel safe and secure, the most basic of our human needs.

We are now about to embark on another adventure in experiencing something new – The Holidays.

This is a time of year that we typically would travel, visit family, go to parties at friends’ homes and restaurants, as well as within our workplaces. We typically deliver presents to share holiday cheer with others. Perhaps your family spends time in service for organizations or with individuals who need extra help and extra support during this time.

While these traditions were part of the bedrock of the holidays, they are most likely not available to us this year. Although this season will look quite different than years past, we may be able to find some hidden treasures in our new “holiday normal.”

Here are a few suggestions to help you get through this new “holiday normal” that are based on the science of how our human brain is wired with a sprinkling of strategies to improve your relationships and boost your resilience. So, in other words, these may be things you choose to add to your life, regardless of whether or not we are in the middle of a pandemic.

  1. Set the Tone: You set the tone of what this holiday will feel like for your children. They certainly will get messages from your community, their peer group, and the news, however, how you feel and talk about the holiday in your home will have the greatest influence on how they feel. Start by asking yourself, am I already setting myself and my children up for being disappointed? Boost your awareness by noticing how you are talking about the holidays with others, especially when your children are present. When you listen to the things that you say, do you feel uplifted or upset? When your children talk about the holidays do you feel your own body get tense or weak? Although you think your children can not sense this inner state, they can, and it greatly affects how they will feel. You can also use a mindfulness platform like Ninja Focus that can be a great companion for your children to check in on “how they are feeling” and listen to guided tracks from wellness experts.
  2. Make a List of Things You Do Not Have to Do: Rather than focus on what has been lost by listing all of the things that you cannot do this holiday season make a list of all of the things that you DO NOT HAVE TO DO because of the pandemic. Having worked with families for over 2 decades, I have found that many of them become overly burdened this time of year because of all of the obligatory things that they must do either personally or professionally. Start this list by titling your paper, “All of the things I do not have to do, and I never enjoyed doing anyway.” After you create that list, how does it feel when you read it?
  3. Focus on What Truly Matters: Without all of those obligations, you now have a lot more time to focus your energy on what truly has meaning to you and your family. Time for another list. What are some things that you wished you could have had more time to enjoy if you were not running all over the place during the holidays? How many times have you purchased gifts for your children, but then not have time to actually play with them? Focus on those things.
  4. Make New Traditions: It is a great opportunity to make some new traditions and get your children involved in it. Whether you are celebrating a specific holiday or simply taking some time off of work because school is closed, now is the time to collectively decide what family or individual things your children would like to explore during this time and perhaps share with you. Plan ahead, and yes, create another list by asking your children about things they are really interested in doing or learning and find creative ways to explore these things together.
  5. Spend Quality Time and Bond as a Family: Last but not least, remember that this is the perfect “storm” for you to actually BE together, as a family to talk and connect. Ask any child psychologist and they will tell you that the best way to raise children to be self-confident, respectful, happy, and secure, is to give them THIS most important present — YOUR PRESENCE. Simply being side by side, listening to each other without being rushed, speaking honestly about their dreams, fears, desires, challenges, and joys. This is what cultivates a happy home and healthy relationships.

Remember the most important thing is to spend a few moments each day enjoying the company of your children this holiday season. It can bring your family closer and boost your mood. If you think it helps, include yoga and mindfulness exercises into your daily routine. 

Ninja Focus is a great resource with short and easy to follow mindfulness exercises and meditations that you can practice as a family with your children.

We’re enjoying winter walks, exercise videos, arts and crafts, kitchen creations, holiday movies and music, and lots of reading. We’re enjoying Advent devotions every night with dinner and a Tomte story after our homeschool read alouds.

Happy holidays!

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  1. angie says

    December 9, 2020 at 2:18 pm

    awesome thank you for putting positive spin on this thank you for sharing your thoughts come see us at http://shopannies.blogspot.com

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  2. Karen Del Tatto says

    December 9, 2020 at 3:44 pm

    These are great tips for the holidays during this unprecedented time. I like the focus on the positive. Making lemonade out of lemons. :-)

    Thanks for sharing.

    Reply
  3. Theresa Boedeker says

    December 10, 2020 at 9:01 am

    Great tips, especially making a list of what I don’t want to do. Love the ornament of toilet paper!

    Reply
    • Jennifer Lambert says

      December 14, 2020 at 2:54 pm

      I know, they’re so funny!

      Reply
  4. Karen Friday says

    December 10, 2020 at 9:30 am

    Wonderful tips, Jennifer. These certainly change our perspective. I particularly like making new tradtiions and the thought of not having as much to do. And all these tips will give us new ways to really focus on the important aspects of the holidays this year.

    Reply
  5. Lisa Blair says

    December 11, 2020 at 11:04 am

    Jennifer, I appreciate your reminder that we “set the tone of what this holiday will feel like for our children.”

    Reply
  6. April Harris says

    December 12, 2020 at 12:07 pm

    There’s so much good advice in this post, Jen! It really is important to focus on what truly matters and enjoy who we can be with. Thank you for sharing and for being a part of the Hearth and Soul Community. Take care.

    Reply
  7. Ann says

    December 12, 2020 at 7:36 pm

    Good advice. Thank you for sharing at Party In Your PJ’s!

    Reply
  8. Marielle says

    December 12, 2020 at 9:58 pm

    Great tips. Thanks for sharing Jennifer. I’m looking forward to time with family this holiday season.

    Reply
  9. Laurie Cover says

    December 16, 2020 at 10:17 am

    This year is certainly different! We do plan to make the best of the holiday season in the ways that we can!

    Thanks for sharing at the Homestead Blog Hop! Hope your holidays are nice!

    Laurie
    Ridge Haven Homestead.
    🎄

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  10. Richella J Parham says

    December 17, 2020 at 8:54 am

    Jennifer, there’s some real wisdom in this post! Thank you for helping us to make the most of this Christmas season, when so much is different from the traditions we love.

    Thanks so much for joining the Grace at Home party at Imparting Grace. I’m featuring you this week!

    Reply
    • Jennifer Lambert says

      December 19, 2020 at 2:48 pm

      It’s been SUCH a difficult year for most of us. The holidays are stressful enough without a pandemic! I hope we don’t go “back to normal.”

      Reply
  11. Britt K says

    December 22, 2020 at 5:31 pm

    This is definitely going to be a very different year, isn’t it? We usually travel approximately 6 hours north to visit with my family, however, this year that’s obviously off the table. Instead, we have a few different Zoom calls that we’re going to do with different members of the family on each side. We mailed gifts off so that everyone can open their gifts together and it will be similar to the usual celebrations, just digital. Sure, it won’t be the same, but I love that we’re still finding a way to spend time together.

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