I went to Laura Parker’s session at Allume last October. Then I rushed down to her table in the vendor alley to grab a media kit. So I got two copies of The Exodus Road and a snazzy braided leather bracelet. It’s a conversation piece.

I really, really didn’t want to read this book. I much prefer to think that this doesn’t happen. I like my comfortable suburban life and we are too blessed to not have to deal with anything unpleasant, well, ever.

During the session at Allume, I listened to Laura recount how her husband was called to go undercover in third world countries to save girls from sex slavery.

How that would help make a marriage stronger, I thought sarcastically. That she accepted God’s call and submitted to this rescue mission is a testament to her faith in God and in her husband. I can’t say I would be able to do the same.

I love Laura’s honest account of how difficult it was for her and the kids to adjust to living in a third world country, far away from anything known or comfortable. I love how God used them to go outside their comfort zones and rescue girls from slavery. Laura is as witty and real in her book as she was in the session at Allume. I love it when Christians are real and admit to cussing and struggling with normal life.

Author Bio

With years of international living in three different countries, Laura is no stranger to a life of transition. A wife who sends her husband into brothels to look for children, she is well-acquainted with the mess that comes with trying to bravely love the less fortunate. Laura currently serves as the Vice President of Communications for an anti-trafficking organization, The Exodus Road, which her husband founded during their years of living  in SE Asia. The Exodus Road is a coalition which works to fuel undercover investigation and rescue around the globe. She also co-founded and edits a collective blog for international humanitarian workers, A Life Overseas, and has been published with Compassion International, RELEVANT Magazine, MOMSense, Deeper Story, and {In}Courage. She blogs honestly at Laura Parker Writes. The Exodus Road is her first book and documents the gritty journey of their family into the undercover world of sex trafficking.

In this day and age with porn at anyone’s fingertips, this youth pastor, husband, father, put his life on the line for these girls  on the other side of the world – that men pay to use and abuse.

I have three daughters and a son. I hold them closer and pray more fervently.

We’ve been studying Abraham Lincoln and the events leading up to the Civil War. My younger daughters are horrified to read and learn about the enslaved people in America. I don’t have the heart to tell them there are people enslaved all over the world, doing worse work than plantation fields.

Here is a definition of slavery: relationship whereby one person has absolute power over another and controls his life, liberty, and fortune.

“Slavery occurs when one person completely controls another person, using violence or the threat of violence to maintain that control, exploits them economically, pays them nothing and they cannot walk away.” – CNN Freedom Project Read more at The Exodus Road.

I love that I can teach them how God loves all people, no matter their skin color, eye color, ability, or education.

They were stunned that the slaves in America were not allowed to learn to read or write. I am blessed that they value so highly education.

I pray they also value their bodies as highly.

I pray they are never violated and they grow up pure in mind and in body and go to their marriage beds virgins and have no hateful memories to repress.

And I especially pray for these lost children and for the evil men who capture, enslave, rape, abuse, and pay for the disgusting acts they commit.

Because it’s always about money.

If there were no demand, the supply would diminish.

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As part of the Measure of Success Blog Tour, I am excited to be writing alongside hundreds of other inspiring authors about what success looks like.

Can a woman be feminine, godly, and ambitious?

Moms often struggle with measuring our success.

Whether we work outside the home, are WAHMs, or SAHMs, we struggle with balancing our responsibilities and feeling appreciated or satisfied with our accomplishments.

How do you measure whether or not your work is “successful”?

Do you rely on outsiders to tell you that you’re successful? Do you ever feel successful? Do you need numbers or statistics to measure your success?

As a blogger, I often look at my analytics or social media reach to measure “my success” with readers. But I really should follow God’s lead when I write instead of all the hoops I feel I must jump through or the SEO checklists recommended by all the experts.

As a mom, my measure of success is when my kids are agreeable, showing the fruit of the Spirit, growing academically and relationally, and exhibit the joy of the Lord.

As a wife, I measure my success by whether my husband is pleased and satisfied and cheerful. He’s pretty easy-going so sometimes I have to just ask if everything is going smoothly enough with the housework and kids and life in general. I have learned that assumptions are never right.

Can a woman stay home with her kids and utilize the giftedness toward productivity that God has given her?

I once asked a famous Christian homeschool mom speaker and mentor to many if she ever reached that point…? She didn’t even let me finish the question before she cut me off with a firm, “No!”

I beg to differ.

I have had moments, fleeting moments, when I feel the hand of God pat me on the shoulder like He’s saying, “Take notice. This is good. This is right. You’re doing a good job. Remember this moment.”

I define that as success.

Do you think it’s possible for women to “have it all”? In other words, can someone have a thriving career and a thriving home life? What do you think makes this possible or impossible?

I joke with my husband in the evenings when he gets home that I’ve had a two for three day or only a one for three day.

I only once have had a three for three day. It was a crazy good day and I was absolutely exhausted by mid-afternoon!

Something usually has to give.

I can have a great blogging day, writing and social media-ing productively.

I can have a great housewife day, completing laundry, organizing, doing dishes, vacuuming, preparing delicious and nutritious meals and having dinner ready on time, baking bread, sweeping and mopping floors, wiping bathrooms, scrubbing toilets.

I can have a great homeschool mom day, reading aloud history biographies with my snuggly babies, patiently explaining math concepts, doing science experiments, admiring backyard birds and encouraging drawings of them for nature study, teaching Latin and grammar, listening to classical music with tea in the afternoons, and being intentional and available and cheerful all day long.

As far as “thriving,” I do think it’s possible to thrive. With support from my husband and children, I often feel I thrive at my business and with duties at home. My bad days are fewer and fewer as my kids grow and help both at home and with the business duties. Seeking God’s guidance with decisions and direction for every aspect is important.

What do you think has shaped your sense of success? What do you think has driven your choices about work?

My idea of success now is different than it was in the beginning, or even last year. As I grow in my faith and mature in my Christian walk, I find that I need less and less human approval and it’s easier to work with integrity. It’s easier for me to accept my husband’s lead and advice when it comes to my blogging and our essential oils business. We pray about decisions regarding our business, homeschool, and personal choices. As uncomfortable as my husband is praying aloud, I have learned to sit silently and be thankful for prayer time since it draws us closer to each and to God. Seeking God to teach us and lead us with decisions takes a lot of pressure off and helps me be calmer with difficult choices.

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Carolyn McCulley wrote The Measure of Success about women, work, and the home.

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1. How do you measure whether or not your work is “successful”?

2. Can a woman stay home with her kids and utilize the giftedness toward productivity that God has given her?

3. Do you think it’s possible for women to “have it all”? In other words, can someone have a thriving career and a thriving home life? What do you think makes this possible or impossible?

4. What do you think has shaped your sense of success? What do you think has driven your choices about work?

The kids and I loved reviewing Water & Weather: From the Flood to Forecasts by Tom DeRosa and Carolyn Reeves. This is the newest addition in the Investigate the Possibilities series.

The book has 20 investigations with facts, solid science, and fun simple experiments.

I love the learning pyramid at the beginning in How to Use This Book:

• Think About This (Engage)
• The Investigative Problems
• Gather These Things
• Procedures and Observations (Investigate)
• The Science Stuff (Explain)
• Making Connections (Apply)
• Dig Deeper (Expand)
• What Did You Learn? (Assessment)

Beginning with The Flood and ending with climatic change, this book discusses dinosaurs, fossils, rocks, ocean currents, the water cycle, seasons, weather instruments, and more.

This book is a great addition to our science shelf. The kids love the lessons and experiments.

We especially like Lesson 11 about the Continental Divide. We took a trip to Yellowstone in August and we studied maps and rivers and the journey of Lewis and Clark. This is perfect with our history studies.

Alex tuned in for the dinosaur lessons in the beginning, then played with his toy dinosaurs. He really enjoyed that part, but the rest of the book is definitely for older kids.

Recommended for 3rd through 6th grades.

Purchase for $12.99