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31 Days of Servant Leadership: The Purpose of Church

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October 22, 2013 By Jennifer Lambert 1 Comment

Why should we go to church? Can’t we worship God just as well while admiring His creation?

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Welcome with open arms fellow believers who don’t see things the way you do. Romans 14:1a The Message

Honor God. Be gracious to others. We’re only accountable to God.

Be grateful in all things.

Lately, we’ve struggled at our church over programs. We haven’t had a youth group for over a year. Many members of our congregation feel like they need to advise me regarding Elizabeth, since she’s the only child who attends our church regularly who would be youth age.

I am not concerned. Remember that whole adolescent myth?

Many have left our church over doctrinal differences, lack of activities and programs, and church decisions.

The Bible states the only reason to cause a break in the church is if there is false teaching. Yet we’ve had several members who have verbally attacked members of leadership and staff. And I don’t think it was about anything other than personal differences. And then they got real mature and unfriended each other on Facebook.

I’ve always longed to belong, but after years of searching and yearning and crying over loneliness, I realize that I am transient. We are all transient. We are meant to be temporary, visitors, strangers in a strange land. Some of us are nomads in this life, waiting to go home. Others, less fortunate by far, feel at home in their stifling, breath-less togetherness, not realizing there is something better to hope for.

My parents won’t and my husband’s parents didn’t attend church. They say things like “I can talk to God easier and better in my own house, in the woods, in the fields, (insert your own place here) than in a cold building with hypocrites.

We’ve all been hurt by people. Some of us have even been spiritually abused. But we are commanded to gather together in Jesus’ name and worship and fellowship together.

Assemble the people—men, women and children, and the foreigners residing in your towns—so they can listen and learn to fear the Lord your God and follow carefully all the words of this law. Deuteronomy 31:12

If you’re not involved in a church congregation, you’re a crippled Christian. You’re practicing spiritual masturbation. {Tweet this!}

The word ecclesia is in the Bible: 20 times in Acts and 60 times in the epistles. It means “church.” Don’t you think church is important?

The church has five purposes:

1. Edify – discipleship

2. Encourage – fellowship

3. Equip – service

4. Evangelize – outreach

5. Exalt – worship

In too many American churches, the pastor does all five of these. Jesus is the only man who was capable of doing these five jobs well.

And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching. Hebrews 10:24-25

We as an individual must step up and become the Body of Christ. Teach your children what it means to be a Christian in a church congregation and go into all the world.

I recommend the book Church Zero to learn more about the Acts church and how we can bring it back.

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31 Days of Servant Leadership: Admirable

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October 21, 2013 By Jennifer Lambert 1 Comment

What is admirable?

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The Free Dictionary defines admire:

To regard with pleasure, wonder, and approval.

To have a high opinion of; esteem or respect.

To regard with esteem, respect, approval, or pleased surprise.

When was the last time you expressed those emotions for the things of God?

As a society, we are drawing farther and farther away from a biblical mindset. American Christians are too much in the world and compromise.

We regard with pleasure: food, flowers, jokes, entertainment.

We esteem: celebrities, leaders, idols, rich people

We approve: too much of the world.

Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth. 2 Timothy 2:15

There’s nothing wrong with regarding things with pleasure. I admire a great meal, flowers, a waterfall, a keen wit.

The heavens declare the glory of God;
the skies proclaim the work of his hands. Psalm 19:1

We should respect worldly leaders, if only for their position of power. But they are not above God.

Submit yourselves for the Lord’s sake to every human authority: whether to the emperor, as the supreme authority, or to governors, who are sent by him to punish those who do wrong and to commend those who do right. For it is God’s will that by doing good you should silence the ignorant talk of foolish people. Live as free people, but do not use your freedom as a cover-up for evil; live as God’s slaves. Show proper respect to everyone, love the family of believers, fear God, honor the emperor. 1 Peter 2:13-17

We should not be too much in the world. If we are truly Christ followers, we will want less and less of the world and more and more of Him.

Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will. Romans 12:2

What do you want your children to admire? Do you want them to equate Jesus with celebrities? Do you want them to be fans…or followers?

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31 Days of Servant Leadership: Right

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October 21, 2013 By Jennifer Lambert 1 Comment

What is right? Who determines what is right?

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When I was a relatively new homeschooling mom, a friend remarked to me about another homeschooling mom who “was doing it right.”

She “did school” in the mornings and didn’t answer her phone or door until school time was over.

I don’t know why that made such an impression on me. The friend who said this is neither a homeschooler nor a Christian. Her opinion shouldn’t have mattered so much, but here I am, replaying the scene in my head almost six years later. And because I felt I didn’t measure up to that “right” standard, I harbored bitterness and ill will in my heart towards them both. I didn’t search my soul for “rightness” or focus on what is right for me and my family. I focused on comparison.

What was right for that mom is not necessarily right for me.

But what we can be assured of, is that God and the Bible are always right. We can teach our children that families have differences. We must be aligned with Biblical teachings. Prune your hearts and relationships and what you expose your kids to based on what is truly right.

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31 Days of Servant Leadership: Resources for Girls

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October 19, 2013 By Jennifer Lambert 2 Comments

Girls can and should be leaders.

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In our brave, new world, girls are more natural leaders compared to a generation ago.

While many disdain females in leadership and I will not discuss doctrinal issues, I think girls can and should be taught how to be leaders in their marriage, with their children, and with their peers.

As a mom to three girls, I encourage them to show wise leadership. I teach them how and when to best use their talents in ministry and social atmospheres.

Check out my Girls Pinterest Board for resources:

Follow Jennifer Lambert (Royal Little Lambs)’s board Girls on Pinterest.

These are some of my favorite books about parenting girls.

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31 Days of Servant Leadership: Marriage and Parenting Resources

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October 17, 2013 By Jennifer Lambert 1 Comment

Check out leadership resources for parents.

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We need to be leaders in our homes to model leadership for our children.

Servant leadership begins in our own hearts. We need to learn how to be successful in our marriage. We need to determine our worldview. We need to evaluate our methods of teaching and raising children. So many decisions! But they must be considered and constantly reexamined for successful Christian families.

Here’s my Parenting Pin Board:

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Women of Christmas Book Review

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October 17, 2013 By Jennifer Lambert Leave a Comment

I love Liz Curtis Higgs . I knew I would love her holiday book The Women of Christmas: Experience the Season Afresh with Elizabeth, Mary, and Anna and jumped to review it.

It’s a quick read, only took me a couple evenings. I love her conversational style of writing. It’s like she’s just telling me a story. I want to curl up on her sofa with some tea or coffee and just chat.

This is not the typical advent study. It does discuss Elizabeth, Mary, and Anna, but it’s so refreshing to hear this spin on it.

These women are brought alive in the books as we ponder each verse, each event, the omissions as well as the details. Even thought I’ve read the verses in the Bible numerous times and taught them to my children each holiday during our advent studies, I learned so much and prayed through this book that it would touch my girls’ hearts this season. I plan to read a chapter or so each day for my girls. I just know they’ll love it!

Each chapter open with a beloved Christmas carol or hymn and those set the themes for the chapters. Love this! I’m also fascinated by the description of the angels and the important they play in the Christmas story. Interspersed are encouraging and enlightening quotes from women from Liz’s online Bible study. Women just like you!

Silence is just as important as shouting in the Christmas story and in our Christian lives. The ultimate theme in the book for me was the difference in voices, all important to God in their own way: struck silent, singing, praising, shouting, praying, pondering, worshiping.

I love how God uses the ordinary in extraordinary ways. We idolize people in the Bible stories, imagining they were so different and we could never do that, but oh, yes we can! These women were faithful. Elizabeth’s husband questioned. Mary’s betrothed worried. Despite it all, they were obedient. I pray that I could be obedient and faithful too. God can use anyone for His purposes.

Eight wondrous chapters tell the tales of these three ordinary women surrounding the coming of Christ as a babe. A study guide helps us on the journey to celebrate this event with joy.

Click over here to download a free Leader Guide!

224 pages

$14.99 Hardcover

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Return to Me Review

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October 17, 2013 By Jennifer Lambert Leave a Comment

I am excited to review a book by one of my favorite Christian authors, Lynn Austin. Return to Me is the first book in The Restoration Chronicles series.

I devoured this book in a couple evenings, staying up too late and having a “book hangover” in the morning. While I didn’t develop a love for any of the characters like I have with her other books, I love the theme and plot of this one.

It really hit home for me.

This book is set in Babylon and covers the return of the Jews to rebuild the temple. Families are torn apart as some decide to stay where they’ve built successful businesses and others decide to heed God and return to Jerusalem and struggle to rebuild His temple. It’s a longer and more arduous process than they thought, with opposition from the leftovers from before the captivity. They intermarried and resort to pagan ways. Some regret leaving Babylon and long to return to comfort, similar to the Exodus story and the grumbling then.

“But who wouldn’t be willing to sacrifice everything they have now for their children’ future?” the main character, Iddo, admonishes his sons and neighbors.

Sadly, many neighbors and his sons chose to remain in Babylon, where they felt safe and secure. Sadly, many of us choose to stay where we are safe and secure, rather than go into the unknown, seeking God, obeying, receiving His blessing. And sadder still, many choose hardened hearts and comfort knowns rather than venture out in faith to what God has planned.

The tradition of Shabbat is a theme in the book. I love Iddo’s recollection of his mother:

“She didn’t have to cook or clean or wash anything for entire day. She could rest and play with us, sing to us.”

I pray that my children will remember me as kindly, that I took time each day to play, rest, sing.

As I researched the Festival of Booths, Sukkot, and prayed how to incorporate its lessons into our Christian studies and prayer lives…I loved this quote: “The booths remind us of how temporary our lives are…How we are strangers and sojourners in this world. And they remind us how very much we depend on the Almighty One for all our needs.”  We need to be ever grateful, ever remembering that God provides all.

Another theme was the strife between the newly returned Jews and the Jews who were left behind when they were taken into captivity. They try for a compromised peace, even though the people living in the valley have become pagan and do detestable practices against Jewish law and tradition. How often do we compromise with the world and call it making peace? It may not be sacrificing children (but our society condones abortion), witchcraft (but Christians post their astrology horoscopes in their Facebook feeds) or polygamy (how many Christians think the Bible’s teachings on sex are for a simpler time?), but compromise is still sin. We don’t glorify God by compromising with the world.

Some of the characters were flatter than I would like. I didn’t have much sympathy for Dinah. But it may be my life right now. I look forward to the rest of the series! The details are stunning and I want to travel to Israel!

Hardcover: $19.99

Paperback: $14.99

eBook: $14.99

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Studying US History

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October 17, 2013 By Jennifer Lambert Leave a Comment

In light of the government shutdown, it’s been interesting to see how simple things were 225 years ago.

Thankfully, my husband got a paycheck, but we know many who have not and they are struggling. We pray this all gets resolved quickly.

We use Tapestry of Grace as our history core.

We follow a four year cycle of learning history, but US history is only in year three and four because we’re a young country.

See how we do history.

Favorite US History books:

  • A People’s History of the United States by Howard Zinn
  • A Different Mirror by Ronald Takaki  
  • An African American and Latinx History of the United States by Paul Ortiz 
  • A Black Women’s History of the United States by Daina Ramey Berry and Kali Nicole Gross 
  • An Indigenous Peoples’ History of the United States by Roxanne Dunbar-Ortiz  
  • A Disability History of the United States by Kim E. Nielsen  
  • A Queer History of the United States by Michael Bronski  
  • Lies My Teacher Told Me: Everything Your American History Textbook Got Wrong by James W. Loewen
  • A History of US: Eleven-Volume Set by Joy Hakim
  • Life: Our Century In Pictures by Richard B. Stolley
  • The Century for Young People by Peter Jennings

We study our nation’s beginnings in our homeschool.

We love lapbooks and notebooking!

I grew up traveling to many military and history sites around the USA. I hope to show my kids how beautiful the US landscape is and also discuss disturbing history topics and how we can learn from our mistakes.

We watch Schoolhouse Rock videos and do lots and lots and lots of reading.

Studying US History

Travel

We visited the Missions in San Antonio, TX.

We explored Hawaii when we lived there for three years.

We learned about the Transcontinental Railroad in Utah. We took a trip to Yellowstone and the Tetons.

When we moved to Ohio, we learned about the Wright Brothers.

Colonialism

Did Columbus really discover America?

No.

We enjoy reading about different aspects of the discovery of America and the American colonies.

My 4th of July Unit.

My Revolutionary War Unit.

My Constitution Unit.

Government

How was the US Government formed?

We enjoy reading about “the founding fathers” (and mothers) and how our early government worked. It’s pretty unique with states and federal.

My eldest is pretty fascinated by the election process. She likes the Presidential Game and iCivics.

We all loved this mouse book about the Supreme Court.

Here’s the official page of the USS Constitution. It’s important to read and understand it.

Military

The USA probably has the strongest military in the world, but it wasn’t always that way.

Is it right that we’re the policemen of the world?

Old Ironsides coloring page for younger kids.

Learn about sailing with these fun games and activities!

My girls love to make their own timelines, biography pages, and write about their learning in history and other subjects. They wrote a timeline of the events leading up the War of 1812.

  • Revolutionary War
  • Civil War
  • World War I
  • World War II
  • Pearl Harbor Remembrance Day
  • Japan Unit
  • Korea Unit
  • Vietnam Unit
  • The Middle East
  • Patriot Day or 9/11

Pioneer

My girls loved notebooking about Lewis and Clark.

We lived in Utah for four years and they really celebrated Pioneer Day which never really set right with me.

I enjoy learning about homesteading, but the history of the US exploring the west and manifest destiny is terrible.

White Europeans stole land and colonized in the name of God, destroying native culture.

Native Americans

We’re reading about Sacagawea and Tecumseh and I’m loving learning along with the kids!

(They’re still here.)

  • Indigenous People Book List – by and about Natives
  • Thanksgiving Unit
  • Johnston Farm and Indian Agency

Black History

I have a duty to teach my white children truth about our country and its history.

I teach from many different resources about Black history year-round with our history cycles, not just one month a year.

My youngest daughter and I made a cotton gin with Story of the World!

We learn about history by visiting museums like the National Underground Railroad Freedom Center.

Stone Mountain is an odd amusement park that sparks much discussion.

Civil Rights

We’re reading and learning about civil rights in the USA and around the world.

  • Nonviolence Unit Study
  • Being AntiRacist
  • Celebrating Diversity
  • Love Your Neighbor
  • Hispanic Heritage Unit
  • Asian Pacific American Heritage Unit

The US has much work to do for civil rights for all.

Our favorite resource for notebooking is Notebooking Pages.

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What are your favorite US history resources?

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31 Days of Servant Leadership: Noble

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October 16, 2013 By Jennifer Lambert Leave a Comment

What is noble?

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The Free Dictionary defines noble:

Having or showing qualities of high moral character, such as courage, generosity, or honor: a noble spirit.

Proceeding from or indicative of such a character; showing magnanimity.

Grand and stately in appearance; majestic.

As children of the King, shouldn’t we all be called noble? We should train ourselves to have and show qualities of high moral character.

But, many of us do have that, or believe it.

And they’re just really moral heathens.

When they stand before Jesus on Judgment Day, what will Jesus say?

“Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. Many will say to me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name and in your name drive out demons and in your name perform many miracles?’ Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!’ Matthew 7:21-23

Do you want to hear that?

I didn’t think so.

Too many people consider themselves Christians.

What good is it, my brothers and sisters, if someone claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save them? Suppose a brother or a sister is without clothes and daily food. If one of you says to them, “Go in peace; keep warm and well fed,” but does nothing about their physical needs, what good is it? In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.

But someone will say, “You have faith; I have deeds.”

Show me your faith without deeds, and I will show you my faith by my deeds.

You believe that there is one God.

Good! Even the demons believe that—and shudder. James 2:14-19

But too many people who believe in Christ are really just fans. They admire Jesus and know lots about Him and the Bible.

But they don’t really know Him.

“We’re drinking a cocktail that’s a mix of the Protestant work ethic, the American dream, and the gospel. And we’ve intertwined them so completely that we can’t tell them apart anymore. Our gospel has become a gospel of following your dreams and being good so God will make all your dreams come true. It’s the Oprah god.” Phil Vischer

Let’s really teach kids to follow Christ instead of morality.

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31 Days of Servant Leadership: Lovely

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October 16, 2013 By Jennifer Lambert Leave a Comment

What is lovely?

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According to The Free Dictionary, lovely means:

1. Full of love; loving.

2. Inspiring love or affection.

3. Having beauty that appeals to the emotions as well as to the eye.

4. Enjoyable; delightful.

When we say something is lovely, it’s positive. But is it worldly?

To use the term lovely as meant in Philippians 4:8, I think that it must “inspire affection” for a Kingdom cause.

We can call many natural phenomena lovely. I love to worship God through Nature. A waterfall is lovely. A butterfly. A flower. A laughing child.

Humanists and even many Christians tell us that we’re all lovely. But I don’t like the imagery they create with their pep talks. Their universal consciousness makes me uncomfortable. Their admonition that we all just need to search for the beauty within make me wonder. Their particular shade of justification deceives and pulls in many doubters and offers a safe haven that isn’t truth.

In Romans 3:10, it tells us that none of us is good.

This is a difficult concept for Christians and non-Christians. No one wants to be told she isn’t good. No one wants to be told she is ugly. How do you approach non-believers with this concept?

But all loveliness and goodness in us is because of Christ. See Mark 10:18 and Luke 18:19.

How lovely is your dwelling place,
Lord Almighty! Psalm 84:1

Aren’t we all dwelling places for the Holy Spirit?

Therefore, we should take care of these temples as best we can in order to do the work we are called to do. But that’s another post for another day.

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